I came across this wonderful information by Michael Fiore on his website DigitalRomance.com. Be honest with yourself when you address each point and ask yourself each question. If you honestly do the work, you should be able to determine where you stand and hopefully be well on your way to a loving lasting relationship.

First, some things to remember:

1. A women’s insecurity can kill a man’s love for you, like poison on a flower. Men hate it when their women doubt their sincerity regarding his love for us. This doubt kills his self-esteem and drains his love for us.
2. It is impossible to be loved unless you first love yourself. Putting your love and self-worth in a man creates intense pressure on a guy.
3. Men aren’t women. Women make the mistake of wanting a man to love them in the same way we as women love.
4. Love means different things to different people. For women, the question becomes, “Does he desire me and only me?” For men, it means, “Am I happy when I am with her”, or “Am I jealous of the thought of other men around her?” Women want obsession and devotion, men want appreciation and respect. For both sides to be happy there has to be a meeting of the minds; read the signals.

The ask yourself these questions

1. Does he say, “I love you?” If he says I love you too early, then this is a bad sign.  At least a few times a month is good.
2. Does he make you a priority in his life? Actions speak louder than words. You should be in his top 3 priorities. Sometimes, things shift and priorities change. His actions can include making dinner for you, going to dinners, or doing things he hates for your benefit. The actions don’t have to be grand gestures.
3. Does he tell his friends about you and show you off in public settings? Have you met his family? If he does not do this then he is ashamed of you, or something is fishy. A man who is in love wants to show you off. Does he hide you away?
4. Does he care about your pleasure during sex? Does he look at you and talk to you during sex?
5. Does he respect and encourage you? Does he value your opinion? Share important decisions? Does he encourage you to have a life outside of him? Is he in your corner? Jealousy is not love. We must understand the difference.
6. Do your friends like the way he treats you? Your friends can judge him better than you can.
7. Does he look at you with desire and attraction? Does he check you out (physical appreciation)?

I hope you’ve enjoyed our time together and learned a lot of cool tips that I’ve been using to build a great relationship.

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